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Verity Spencer

Verity Spencer, BACP

Therapist in United Kingdom

Calm, practical counselling for life pressures

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  • Compassionate listening
  • Practical coping tools
  • Work on relationships

About Verity

Verity Spencer is a counsellor with BACP accreditation and 14 years of experience. She offers help for worries such as anxiety, stress, low self-esteem, depression, relationship concerns and jealousy. She aims to help people make clearer choices and feel less overwhelmed by day-to-day pressures.

Her work is calm and straightforward. She listens without judgement and encourages people to talk about what matters to them. She creates space to look at feelings and reactions so clients can spot patterns and try different ways of coping.

Verity uses an integrative approach that draws on person-centred ideas, psychodynamic thinking and cognitive behavioural techniques. That mix means sessions can focus on practical steps, how past experiences shape current reactions, or both, depending on what a person needs.

She has worked with teenagers and adults in school and community settings and has experience supporting people through bereavement, trauma, relationship breakdown and parenting strains. Her earlier career in broadcasting exposed her to many cultures and team environments, which she says helps her be aware of different world views.

Sessions are offered in English and she works from the United Kingdom. To begin, a person completes a short matching questionnaire and then arranges appointments according to the therapist's availability. Verity aims to treat everyone with respect and care as they take the first steps into therapy.

How her approaches work in online therapy

Attachment-based work focuses on how early relationships shape current ways of connecting and reacting. It can help when jealousy, intimacy or trust issues feel stuck and repeat across relationships.

Client-centred work prioritises the person's own pace and perspective. The counsellor listens carefully, reflects what she hears and supports the client to find their own solutions. This often suits people who need space to make sense of feelings without being pushed toward a particular outcome.

Cognitive behavioural approaches look at the link between thoughts, feelings and actions and offer straightforward tools to test and change unhelpful patterns. These techniques can help with anxiety, low mood, sleep problems and everyday coping.

Finding the right mix is part of the process. Verity will work collaboratively to decide which approach or combination fits a person's goals and preferences, adjusting as the work moves forward.

Confirm the current session options before booking, as formats are not specified here. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy around busy days, reduce travel time and allow shorter check-ins when needed. It can also make regular sessions simpler to attend while juggling family and work commitments.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Family conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

Aging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesBlended family issuesCancerCommunication problemsDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesGuilt and shameInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisPanic disorder and panic attacksPost-traumatic stressSelf-harmSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Psychodynamic Therapy

Experience

14+ years

Credentials

See below

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does Verity help with?

She supports people with stress, anxiety, depression, self-esteem issues, relationship concerns, jealousy and related worries such as grief, trauma and parenting strains.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Her style is calm and non-judgemental. She listens closely and helps clients notice patterns, try practical steps and reflect on where problems began.

How much experience does she have?

She has 14 years of experience working with teenagers and adults in school and community settings and in psychological support roles.

What professional credential does she hold and where is she based?

She is accredited by the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and is based in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the UK work with her?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How are fees and payment handled?

Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I start therapy with her?

Click the continue button on this profile, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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