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Dr. Shelia  Lumar

Dr. Shelia Lumar, LPC

Therapist in Texas

LPC counselor focused on strengths and relationships

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  • Strengths based
  • Goal oriented
  • Relationship focus

About Shelia

Dr. Shelia Lumar is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in Texas with 20 years of clinical experience. She supports people facing stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, addiction, relationship strains, and adjustment to life changes. She emphasizes the client’s own strengths and decisions as central to progress. Dr. Lumar frames seeking help as a brave first step toward a more satisfying life and offers steady support through that process.

Her approach is practical and collaborative. Sessions focus on clear goals and building skills that people can use between meetings. She blends client-centered work with evidence-informed tools to address thinking patterns, emotions, and relationship dynamics. This helps when someone wants concrete ways to reduce anxiety, manage anger, or handle grief.

Dr. Lumar also uses techniques that focus on emotional bonds and motivation. These methods can be helpful for intimacy-related concerns, commitment issues, and improving how people relate to one another. She pays attention to attachment themes and life-story issues like abandonment or adoption that shape current patterns.

Over two decades she has helped people navigate career stress, parenting challenges, caregiver strain, body-image worries, and the stress of major life transitions. Sessions aim to strengthen coping skills and restore a sense of agency. She encourages people to notice small changes and build on them.

Clients can expect a respectful, listening-first style that balances empathy with practical steps. Dr. Lumar works in English and practices in Texas. To begin, follow the Start Therapy steps on the site to match and schedule a session.

How therapy methods translate to online work

Client-Centered Therapy focuses on listening, empathy and following the client’s lead. It helps people feel heard and find their own solutions during conversations about relationships, grief, and self-esteem.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, looks at how thoughts, feelings and actions connect. It uses practical exercises to reduce anxiety, manage anger, and change unhelpful thinking patterns.

Emotionally-Focused Therapy concentrates on emotions and attachment needs within close relationships. It can help with intimacy-related issues and improving how people connect and communicate.

Choosing an approach is a shared process. The therapist will talk with the client about goals, try methods that fit those goals, and adjust as needed. This collaborative stance helps make sure therapy stays relevant to real-life problems.

If you are considering online sessions, confirm the current session options before booking since formats are not specified here. Online work can make it easier to fit meetings into a busy week, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and reduce travel time. It also makes it possible to work with a licensed professional in Texas from different locations when the therapist supports that format.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseDepressionCoping with life changes

Also works with

AddictionsFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficulties

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)Divorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaTrichotillomaniaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyMotivational InterviewingTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

20+ years

Credentials

Texas

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Dr. Lumar address?

She helps with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, addiction, relationship issues, grief, parenting and many life changes.

How does she approach therapy?

Her style is collaborative and listening-first, combining client-centered care with practical strategies to change thoughts and behaviors.

What is her professional background?

Dr. Lumar has 20 years of professional work experience supporting people through a range of emotional and life challenges.

What credentials does she hold and where is she located?

She is a Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, licensed in Texas and practices there.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the United States work with her?

She is not accepting international clients at this time.

How are costs handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I start a session with Dr. Lumar?

Click the continue button on this profile, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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