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Selena Zafar

Selena Zafar, BACP

Therapist in United Kingdom

Client-led counselling for relationship and identity concerns

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  • Client-centred
  • Grief and loss
  • Identity work

About Selena

Selena Zafar is a counsellor who focuses on helping people manage stress, anxiety and relationship concerns, including jealousy and intimacy-related issues. She offers a calm, non-judgemental space for people to talk through painful feelings and decide what changes they want to make. Selena works in English and accepts international clients who are able to arrange sessions from the United Kingdom time zone.

She uses client-centred therapy, which means she follows the person's lead and focuses on understanding their experience. Sessions are collaborative - the client and counsellor agree goals and the pace of work together. This approach is often used for grief, self-esteem, identity, eating and career worries, and for people coping with life changes.

Selena trained to counsell and holds BACP as a recorded credential. She has three years' experience in counselling work and completed a Master of Science degree, which she references as part of her background. She also speaks from personal experience of therapy and from growing up in a multi-faith, multicultural family.

Her additional interests include identity and cultural issues, bereavement, race and sports psychology. She also supports people facing parenting pressures, addiction concerns, compassion fatigue and ADHD-related challenges. Clients can expect a warm, empathic approach that centres their own expertise about their life.

To begin, clients follow the site matching steps and schedule sessions according to the available times. Costs vary with location and are handled through a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How client-centred work translates to online counselling

Client-centred therapy focuses on the person’s experience, not the counsellor’s agenda. It involves active listening, empathy and supporting people to lead the conversation about what matters most to them. This approach is helpful for issues like grief, identity concerns, relationship and intimacy worries, low self-esteem and coping with life changes.

The therapist will work collaboratively to find the right way of working. Together they will agree goals, try different ways of exploring feelings and adjust the approach based on what fits the person's needs and preferences. Deciding which methods help most is part of the ongoing process rather than a one-time choice.

The biography does not list which online formats are offered, so confirm the available session types before booking. Many people find online sessions easier to fit around work, study and family routines, and they can reduce travel time. Some formats also make shorter check-ins possible or avoid the need to be on camera, which can help on busy days. Registered or accredited professionals can use online work to keep therapy consistent when life changes make in-person visits difficult.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefSelf esteem

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered Therapy

Experience

3+ years

Credentials

See below

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of issues does Selena help with?

She supports people dealing with stress, anxiety, relationship and intimacy concerns, grief, self-esteem, addictions and identity-related struggles.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

She practises client-centred therapy, offering a warm, non-judgemental space and following the client's lead to set goals together.

What experience does she bring to sessions?

Selena has three years' counselling experience and holds a Master of Science degree, which she cites as part of her professional background.

Where is she based and what credential does she hold?

She works from the United Kingdom and lists BACP as her credential.

What languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English and she is able to work with international clients.

Which session formats are available?

The original biography does not specify session formats; please confirm the current session options before booking.

How are sessions paid for and what do they cost?

Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I start therapy with her?

Use the continue button on this profile, complete the short matching questionnaire and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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