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Sara Paolini

Sara Paolini, BACP

Therapist in United Kingdom

Calm, practical support for difficult feelings

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  • Down-to-earth approach
  • Works with trauma
  • Offers remote sessions

About Sara

Sara Paolini offers a straightforward, compassionate place to talk when things feel overwhelming. She welcomes people who are dealing with stress, anxiety, low self-esteem, depression, relationship worries, grief or questions about intimacy. Her tone is down-to-earth and practical, aiming to help clients feel heard and understood. Sara uses clear conversation to help people notice patterns that cause pain and test small changes that can feel manageable. She is a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP, which appears after her name as BACP. She has five years' experience working with a range of concernsincluding trauma, dissociation, self-harm patterns and eating difficulties. In sessions she pays attention to how early attachments and abandonment experiences shape current reactions. She also works with issues around body image, caregiver stress, chronic illness, codependency and control concerns. These topics often show up alongside relationship and family problems, and she helps clients talk through those links. Sara offers both remote and in-person work and will discuss what might fit best for each person. She accepts international clients and conducts therapy in English. Sessions are arranged through a subscription system that can be cancelled at any time. If someone wants to begin, they can use the continue button on this profile, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to availability. Sara aims to create a calm, steady space for people to try out new ways of coping and relating.

How therapeutic approaches translate to online work

Transactional Analysis focuses on how people communicate and relate to others. It looks at recurring patterns in interactions and the simple choices someone can try to change those patterns. This approach can help with relationship worries, communication problems and feelings tied to past interactions.

Evidence-based therapeutic techniques aimed at trauma and dissociation typically use paced, structured conversation and grounding exercises. These methods help people feel steadier in the moment and gradually process difficult memories or reactions. They are often useful for anxiety, trauma responses and self-harm patterns.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will discuss goals, preferences and how symptoms show up, then suggest methods to try. Clients and the therapist decide together what feels most useful and adjust as therapy progresses.

Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into busy lives by removing travel time and allowing meetings from different locations. It also allows continuity when people move or travel, and can let someone choose a quieter place or a shorter check-in if that helps them attend more consistently. Confirm the available session formats before booking to be sure they meet personal needs.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

LGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersAnger managementCareer difficulties

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameImmigration issuesIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Experience

5+ years

Credentials

See below

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?

Sara helps people facing stress, anxiety, low self-esteem and depression, as well as relationship and family concerns. She also supports those dealing with trauma, dissociation, grief and intimacy-related issues.

How would you describe her therapy style?

The approach is conversational and practical, focusing on noticing patterns and trying small changes. Sessions aim to be calm and steady, helping people make sense of their feelings in everyday terms.

What experience does she bring?

She has five years' experience working with a wide range of difficulties, including self-harm patterns, eating issues and chronic illness related stress. That experience informs a practical, problem-focused way of working.

Where is she based and what credential does she hold?

She practises in the United Kingdom and is a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, shown as BACP.

Which languages are available for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people from other countries work with her?

Yes, she accepts international clients and can arrange sessions across borders where practical.

How does payment and cost work?

Costs vary with location and therapist scheduling; sessions are provided through a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

What do I do to begin therapy?

Use the continue button on this profile, fill in a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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