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Rhonda Waller

Rhonda Waller, LMFT

Therapist in California

Relational, trauma-informed marriage and family therapist

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  • Attachment focused
  • Sexuality aware
  • Trauma informed

About Rhonda

Rhonda Waller is a licensed marriage and family therapist who helps people facing stress, anxiety, relationship strain, trauma and abuse, grief, and low self-esteem. She centers relationships and attachment in her work and pays close attention to how early experiences shape current patterns. Rhonda practices in California and brings nine years of clinical experience to sessions.

She frames healing as something that happens between people. Rhonda uses an attachment-focused, trauma-informed view to understand how connections succeed or break down. She listens for patterns that show up in relationships and helps clients name what gets in the way of feeling close and safe.

Rhonda has worked extensively with LGBTQ+ and BIPOC communities and attends to identity-related challenges alongside mental health concerns. Her practice includes support for issues such as intimacy and sexual concerns, addiction, dissociation, and family-of-origin patterns. She aims to hold space without judgment while helping clients build clearer communication skills and firmer boundaries.

When trauma is part of someone’s story, Rhonda approaches those memories carefully and paced to the person’s needs. She also helps people recover from betrayal, manage commitment and control struggles, and cope with caregiver stress or life transitions. Sessions focus on practical steps clients can use between meetings to test new ways of relating.

Rhonda wants clients to feel seen and understood while they work toward more stable connections with themselves and others. She encourages a collaborative approach so goals are realistic and guided by each person’s values and daily life.

How evidence-based approaches guide online work

Rhonda commonly uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques that emphasize attachment and careful trauma work. An attachment-focused approach looks at patterns in close relationships and helps people practice new ways of relating, which can ease jealousy, abandonment fears, and trust issues.

Trauma-informed methods in her work involve pacing exposure to difficult memories and building safety and coping skills first. This helps when trauma, dissociation, or the emotional fallout of abuse affect daily life and intimate relationships.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. Rhonda will work with each person to pick or adjust methods based on symptoms, goals, and what feels manageable. Clients help set goals and decide how quickly to move between skills work and deeper processing.

The original profile does not specify which session formats are offered, so please confirm current options before booking. In general, online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into workdays, reduce travel time, and allow shorter check-ins when schedules are tight. Licensed professionals can adapt exercises, communication practice, and trauma pacing to remote sessions so therapy fits into everyday life without needing a long commute.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseGriefSelf esteem

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureCaregiver issues and stressCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDissociationDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFertility issuesGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyMidlife crisisMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Experience

9+ years

Credentials

California

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Rhonda commonly address?

She supports people with stress, anxiety, relationship strain, trauma and abuse, grief, and self-esteem challenges. Additional focuses include attachment wounds, abandonment, codependency, and sexual and intimacy issues.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Rhonda works from a relational, attachment-focused, and trauma-informed perspective. She emphasizes practical communication skills and paced work on difficult memories.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has nine years of experience providing therapy in clinical settings and independent practice. That experience includes work with diverse communities and a range of presenting concerns.

What credentials and location are listed?

Rhonda holds the LMFT credential and practices in California.

Which languages and international arrangements are supported?

Sessions are offered in English and she is not accepting international clients at this time.

What session formats are available?

The original profile does not list specific session formats. Please confirm current session options before booking.

How is pricing handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with Rhonda?

Use the continue button on this profile, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

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