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Malcolm Bateup

Malcolm Bateup, NCPS

Therapist in United Kingdom

Experienced integrative psychotherapist and relationship counsellor

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  • Integrative approach
  • Relationship focus
  • Author and practitioner

About Malcolm

Malcolm Bateup is an integrative psychotherapist with 14 years of experience. He supports people dealing with stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship difficulties, grief and intimacy-related concerns. He also helps with sleep and eating problems, parenting strain, anger, self-esteem and life changes. Malcolm writes in a direct, approachable way and aims to make starting therapy easier.

He trained and practised in the health field from 1996, and he brings lived experience of mental health to his work. Malcolm is the author of Live Your Life Like You Lived It Before. He describes his approach as integrative, drawing on several methods to match what each person needs rather than using a single fixed model.

In sessions he focuses on understanding attachment patterns, personal history and present-day behaviour. He uses client-centred listening alongside cognitive tools to help people notice unhelpful thoughts and try different responses. He also uses relationship-focused methods where that fits the work.

Malcolm offers a range of session styles to suit different preferences and can adapt the pace and focus as issues change. He receives monthly clinical supervision and reviews the work regularly with clients. He encourages people not to ‘suffer in silence’ and aims to make first steps into therapy straightforward.

Before booking, people are invited to check the available session options and to decide which style suits them best. Malcolm works in English and accepts international clients, and he asks people to use the Start Therapy process to make initial contact.

How his approaches translate to online work

Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early relationships affect current patterns. It helps when worries about closeness or jealousy repeat in adulthood and supports building steadier connections. Client-Centred Therapy focuses on listening and following the person’s pace, which helps people feel heard and decide what to work on next. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) offers simple, step-by-step tools to notice thoughts and try different behaviours, useful for anxiety, stress and unhelpful thinking.

Finding the right approach is part of the therapy process. Malcolm will discuss your goals and preferences and choose, together with you, which methods to prioritise. That collaborative planning means the work can change as needs evolve.

If you are considering online sessions, check the current session options before booking as formats can vary. Many people find remote sessions easier to fit around work and family life, or better for a shorter check-in when things are busy. Video sessions allow face-to-face conversation, while other options can suit those who prefer different pacing or less screen time. Talk with him about what fits your day-to-day routine and he will help arrange sessions that work practically for you.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseDepression

Also works with

Relationship issuesGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHoardingImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTraumatic brain injuryWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Gottman MethodJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

14+ years

Credentials

See below

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does he help with?

He supports people with stress, anxiety, addictions, depression, relationship and intimacy-related issues, grief, sleep and eating problems, parenting strain, anger, self-esteem, ADHD and life changes.

What is his therapeutic style like?

He works in an integrative, approachable way that combines client-centred listening with practical cognitive tools and relationship-focused work as needed.

How long has he been practising?

He has 14 years of experience as an integrative psychotherapist and a background in the health field dating from 1996.

What credentials and where is he based?

He is listed with the credential NCPS and works from the United Kingdom.

Can I work with him if I live outside the UK?

Sessions are offered in English and he accepts international clients.

Which session formats are available?

His biography mentions face-to-face, video link, couples and walk-and-talk sessions; please confirm current session options before booking.

How are sessions paid for?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Use the continue button on this profile, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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