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Cynthia Cunningham

Cynthia Cunningham, LMFT

Therapist in California

Compassionate therapist with lived recovery experience

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  • Relationship focus
  • Addiction recovery
  • Practical boundary work

About Cynthia

Cynthia Cunningham is a California licensed marriage and family therapist with 27 years of practice. She draws on long personal recovery from addiction and codependency to inform a direct, compassionate approach. Cynthia speaks plainly and helps people find practical steps when relationships and self-worth feel overwhelming.

She focuses on relationship struggles, jealousy, intimacy issues, addiction recovery, and patterns like codependency. Cynthia also works with anxiety, panic, depression, bipolar concerns, sleep and eating issues, and life transitions. Her experience includes helping people cope with grief, anger, career stress, and ADHD-related challenges.

Cynthia uses several familiar methods in therapy, including cognitive behavioral techniques, attachment-based ideas, acceptance and commitment principles, emotionally focused work, and a client-centered stance. Sessions aim to identify unhelpful patterns and build concrete skills for change. Clients set the pace and decide which goals matter most.

In sessions she offers clear coaching on boundaries, saying no, and shifting attention away from people who do not return affection. She describes herself as a companion on the work of recovery and personal change, rather than an authority who tells clients what to do.

Her style is practical and straightforward. She supports people who want to stop destructive patterns, strengthen self-esteem, and develop healthier relationships. Cynthia invites those ready to take a first step to reach out and begin a plan together.

How Cynthia’s approaches translate to online work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice unhelpful thoughts and take steps that match their values. It is useful for anxiety, low mood, and getting unstuck from old patterns. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on identifying thoughts and behaviors that keep problems going and practicing new skills to change them. It often helps with panic, depression, and sleep or eating concerns. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early connection patterns affect current relationships and helps people recognize and shift those patterns for more steady relating.

Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. Cynthia will review your goals, past experiences, and preferences and help pick techniques that fit your situation. Sessions adapt over time as priorities change so the work stays relevant and practical.

Confirm current session formats before booking so you know which options are offered. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy life, reduce travel time, and allow more flexible scheduling around work or caregiving. It also lets people use shorter check-ins when days are tight or choose longer sessions when deeper work is needed. Ask about session length and timing during the match process to arrange a plan that suits your routine.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

AddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsAnger managementSelf esteem

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)Divorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFertility issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodHypnotherapyImago Relationship TherapyJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

27+ years

Credentials

California

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Cynthia commonly address?

She helps with addictions, relationship and intimacy-related issues, jealousy, codependency, anxiety, depression, bipolar concerns, grief, sleep and eating problems, and life changes.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her style is direct and practical. She uses coaching, skills work, and compassionate feedback so clients can make clear, achievable changes.

What experience does she bring to sessions?

She has 27 years of clinical experience and long-term personal recovery from addiction and codependency that informs her approach.

What credential and region should I know about?

She is a LMFT, a licensed marriage and family therapist practicing in California.

In which language are sessions offered?

Sessions are offered in English.

Are international clients accepted?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How are fees and payment handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Click the continue button on this profile, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

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